As often as your fiancé keeps telling you that you do not look old, you still know that you have an age, and to be frankly an age that one can not think that is appropriate to have a wedding celebrated in white. There are countries that in this respect have some unwritten rules that go for the brides who have their second or even third wedding event: not to wear a veil for the hairstyle and the color of the dress could as well be other than white, going most likely for cream or dark ivory. And this happens because in these countries wearing a veil is the symbolic gesture of covering the innocence and purity of the virgin described also by the white color of the dress for this innocence to be unveiled once the marriage is sealed.
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As you are already at your second marriage, you know what is there to be done in regard to the wedding planning and all the details that are comprised in the process of its preparation. But you have never imagined that the choice of your wedding dress will be that hard to take, the bridal sites presenting indeed wedding gowns for older brides, but none of them seems to satisfy your wishes. Either it is too short, either it shows the nakedness of your shoulders that doesn’t look that freshly rounded any more, either it uncovers your elbows that exactly like the shoulders don’t look at all fresh.
Altogether, you are a little bit disappointed with the outcome of your research; the wedding gowns are the ones that show brides at their early ages of youth, when the vivacity of these years reveals freshness and confidence of a good-looking body and face. These wedding dresses seem to be tailored for their age, you can not imagine yourself wearing those fitted bodices with that A-line style of the skirts that confer a bride the look of a young princess in her walk to the prince of her heart.
But your fiancé doesn’t let you wander through the darkness of these skeptical thoughts of yours; he says that he feels your love towards him for so many times flowing in warm waves towards him, wrapping him with positive vibes and he simply can not believe that your skeptical attitude can come from a core that is filled with so much love.
It is the first time that you feel him so close and patient with your moods, and step by step he convinces you that the only sense that has to guide your thoughts and ideas in your quest of the wedding gown for older women brides is the self-confidence.
It is the confidence that your love has to shape inside your inner self, because the same way you love him has to be equal with the way you love yourself, and gaining in this way that confidence in your own self, you will finally come to understand that the wedding gown is right there among the numerous other gowns waiting for you and begging you to have it. This one will have to be the wedding gown that matches your personality and your style regardless of your age.11